Sunday, December 15, 2013

Boxing Champions Christina Kwan and Kaliesha West Raising Stakes In and Out of Ring


When it's your turn to act at the poker table – it's the moment for clarity, wisdom, experience and logic to surface. Mind over matter.  For every move there's a counter. For every action there's a reaction. Poker takes us on a journey that makes us run scenarios over and over in our own minds – hoping that every decision, every move was the right one. Will we ever know if we got our opponent to fold the best hand? Maybe. Maybe not. But one thing's for sure, they may never know what we held either.

In this battle of a constant negotiation for a pot, it's like traveling through life and determining your own path. Will you succumb to the pressures and dictations of others, or will you turn the tables on them and bring them into your world where you take charge of what happens. "It's not a maybe. It's a certainty," says Christina Kwan, a poker player who is also a former U.S. National and World Amateur Champion in boxing at 95-pounds.  She's petite but fiercely determined. I watch her play a few hands of poker with some friends at her Kwan International office at the Las Vegas Motor Speedway and she doesn't care who it is, she's going for the win.
It's that determination that led Christina to become the first boxing titlist to cash in a World Series of Poker event last year. Christina continues to comment in between hands, "Who is poker? Poker is anyone in any country, any culture, all ages. That's how we came up with Project All In. That's what the staged poker table inside the boxing ring is for."
Outfitted with multiple cameras and microphones, Project All In is a live streamed interactive broadcast that shows a non-cash poker game where the worldwide audience can interact with the players in real time. "If they think a player did a bad move, they can say it!" exclaims Christina. "But likewise, the player at the table has the opportunity to defend their moves." She laughs as she starts to show the charisma that is the staple of her compelling personality.  Project All In, however, is meant to have significance even beyond the scope of the broadcast. It's a lifestyle brand – providing a metaphor that parallels Christina's commitment to all that she's involved in: business, boxing, poker and motorsports.
The boxing ring inside her office isn't there for mere decoration or even as just a stage for Project All In.  After leaving the sport for six years, she came back solely fixated on winning a professional World Championship. So why the decision? She certainly had built a successful business. She didn't need boxing to make a living.
A deeper reveal brings me to the rather hostile side of the boxing business. "You see, back then, we relied on the promoters. We relied on them to make or break our careers. Would they give us a fight on their card? Would they promote us?" she explains as her tone quickly changes to serious. "And don't even get Kaliesha started on how she's been treated even as a current world champion and I can relate to it – she's right. However, I can't change the business. That's why we've come together. That's why we're taking this approach from an entirely new angle."
She is talking about Kaliesha West, the two-time World Champion at 122-pounds who has openly pointed out the perils of the sport on public platforms.  It wasn't just the respect the two have for one another that brought them together; they share more passions than just boxing. "She's an amazing person. Together, we just understand each other. She brings an enhanced dimension, a skillset, to Kwan International and it's an exciting future endeavor," Chistina forecasts.
While the two know the hard work and sacrifices they've endured in and out of the ring, they equally share passions for poker and motorsports, a big factor in collaborating on projects outside of boxing. When you look at the scope of the Kwan office, you are quickly reminded by the diversity in all that it represents. Rather than seeing prominent boxing companies displayed from walls and rafters, you see major automotive influences – to the tune of Aeromotive Fuel Systems, a sponsor of Christina's 18-foot 1300-horsepower drag boat that she will race in the televised Lucas Oil series; SEMA, where Christina is currently serving her third elected term to the women's board; and Swisstrax, Race Ramps and TRE Racing. On the opposite end of the spectrum, companies like LG electronics, Pictographics and Deja Soleil Swimwear make Christina's representation vastly impressive.
She isn't solely defined by boxing, but it is a defining attribute of her. Most thought they knew her game plan when she departed from the sport, but what many were about to find out was the check-raise move she was about to show. Flipping the script on promoters and those largely engrained in boxing's systematic approach to producing fight events, Christina has solidified her position on a fight card that is solely promoted by the automotive and motorsports industry – but that's because she's opened those doors.
When you've had the chance to sit down with Christina and spend some time listening to her – you realize that her weaving of multiple industries together in a joint effort to cross-expose – to cross-market – is an innovation of its time.  She's successful and the question is really when the others will catch-up. Her intellect continues to stir new waves – a force of nature that no one in boxing has ever seen before. Joining forces with Kaliesha, some say that these two may very well be the most multi-dimensional boxers the sport has ever seen. Reaching new levels and breaking through the glass walls, it is Christina's determination and willingness to put it all on the line that makes every effort a committed one. She can sum it up in three words, "I'm all in."

SOURCE Sky Press

Thursday, October 3, 2013

SINGLE LADIES - Let's be real!

I wonder what a girl really wants. I have spent more than my fair share of nights at the bar, listening to my guy friends agonize over a girl. Sometimes even the same girl LOL. THERE REALLY ARE GREAT GUYS OUT THERE! It is just hard to find them. Especially when in traditional American hunting, the women is the prey. Not everyone uses these same guidelines, but enough do, that it is worth knowing what the current dating trends are. 

First you have to accept that there are people looking for NSA only. There are also people who are looking for NSA and will pretend to be looking for a relationship. Listen girls . . . people lie. Both men and women lie. They lie about their intentions, about their past, about what they did last night . . . they lie. You are nothing to them. Trust builds over time. Sure you don't want to be pessimistic and have a dark view on the world. We can be positive and be real at the same time. 

People change . . . so when you come across that profile of an old friend you knew years ago, and you were so close . . .treat him with the same rules you use for a stranger. A lot can happen in a weekend, month, year, decades .  . . and people will prey on you. 

A general rule of thumb when approaching dating is to think of it as a HOBBY. You are a HOBBY DATER. This means it is something you like to do, but it does not rule your life (like a SERIAL DATER). You only date during the middle of the week, and reserve your Friday and Saturday nights for yourself, friends, or a second/third date with a really special guy.

WHY ARE YOU SINGLE?
I heard this a lot. Especially when I was a SERIAL DATER. My rehearsed response, "I am very picky and looking for something really special. I will not settle and I don't expect someone to settle for me either. I love my life and will happily be single until someone gives me a reason to not be."

THE PRINCESS FANTASY
That crazy company with the talking mouse seemed to inspire an entire century of fantasy love stories. Prince Charming is a fictional character. No one is going to sweep in and save you from everything PRETTY WOMAN. Your problems and issues prior to the relationship come right along with you. If you haven't sorted them out, and found peace in yourself, STOP DATING. It isn't fair to anyone, especially yourself. 

The bursting of the princess bubble ends a lot of marriages. Two people play "parts" in the script, and then after the wedding, after the kids, after the first real struggle, the family breaks. We need to be honest with ourselves, and our partners. Reality is that he will never live up to that prince and you will never be that princess. Newsflash, when people talk about their fantasy lives, and happy marriages etc, many are preforming for you. 

HOW DO YOU WANT YOUR RELATIONSHIP 
Think about how you want your relationship to be. Talk to couples that have been together for varying lengths of time. Each couple has their own unique relationship. Some are equal partnerships. Some are divided into "jobs," house keeper, and office worker. There are varying degrees of what you find acceptable boundaries for your partner. I love that my boyfriend asks me if I am sure I want to eat something. Other people may see this as controlling, or over the line. I struggle with my weight, and I love that my boyfriend reminds me to check myself. Something that other boyfriends would not do because it wasn't their thing. This is my choice about my relationship. It is very personal and unique to the people in the relationship.

Every relationship is a new and fresh start. Do not audition men for the role of your boyfriend. That means you have already constructed a perfect model of your boyfriend and you want to find the match to fill it. Instead, approach each new relationship as a new job in a totally new place. Stop controlling the situation and see how it unfolds. 

WHERE TO START
Start with a well planned dating profile, designed to appeal to the widest audience. The hunters will find you, and you will be ready to start the selection process. You cannot sit back and select potential dates, if you are too busy chasing down one and trying to make him fit your mold.

FINAL THOUGHTS
Dating is a mess. All these people converging like Penn Station, without a clue of where they are going. People tend to think that mouse fantasy that it just HAPPENS. That isn't true. It is work, work, work. You will work to start the relationship, to keep the relationship and to grow the relationship. Those mousey movies leave out all the details. 


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Thursday, September 26, 2013

GIRLS - WHO's IN YOUR FRIEND ZONE

Dear Girlfriends,

You have a nice group of friends, and some of them are guys in the FRIEND ZONE. They are handsome, funny, smart, caring, loyal, and maybe even your best friend. They have professed their love for you, and you feel just "eh" about them. WHY?

Do you ever rethink the guys who have been put in the FRIEND ZONE? I know that men I have assigned to the friend zone usually each have their own unique reason. I remember one guy was awesome, loved him so much, but his life was a mess. I couldn't be with him, while he was so lost in himself. Then there was the guy who just wasn't my type. He was so HOT and yet so DUMB. It was never going to work . . . he was a good friend and I could only see the possibility for something more if he was just smarter, maybe when he had more life experience. I personally always looked at the FRIEND ZONE like Chris Rock . . .


Well not exactly like that . . . but I do think of them as men with potential to be romantic in the future. The timing just isn't right.

I am asking all my girlfriends to share your FRIEND ZONE thoughts. There are a lot of men who follow me, and are curious to hear what women think!

MTFBWU
Kristen

FEMALE URINATION DEVICE

Alright girls here it is! The Clean Flow Female Urination Device! There are times in a girls life, especially when she is a mom, that she needs to relieve her bladder in a less desirable place.

Think of the possibility here to not only use this while camping, or waiting in line on Black Friday, but also to funnel over a toilet you can't imagine touching!

Hope you are having a great Hersday!

MTFBWU
Kristen

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